SDFA™ Timeline
Take a look at what we’ve been up to since the launch of the San Diego FemDom Alliance™, along with a peek at what lies ahead… It's been such a powerful experience to learn, grow, and create evocative spaces for the community!
Upcoming
June 4-8
Guest of Honor, DomCon Los Angeles
June 22
SDFA™ ELITE Server Training
Cohort 1 meets to continue training for the team’s grand debut at RISE! Mini-Con August 2, 2025
July 19
“FemDom a Conversation with Mistress Leanne”
Leather Realm workshop at SD Pride Festival, 5pm.
August 1-3
RISE Mini-Con, “Legends, Luminaries, & Rising Stars”
A day dedicated to education and celebration with iconic speakers and ‘Masquerade’ a formal large-scale High Protocol experience.
December
“Nice & Naughty” Kinky Holiday Cabaret & Teddy Bear Drive
Kick off the holidays with joy and laughter! Female-led acts, FemDom Choir, Libations & Holiday Treats. Teddy bear donations for a local non-profit domestic violence shelter.
2025
May 7, 2025
FemDom Dinner & Speaker Panel: "Perspectives on High Protocol Service” A Facilitated Community Conversation | Sold Out
April 26, 2025
Opulence, an exclusive High Protocol Cocktail Party
Part of the SDFA ELITE server team hands-on training | Sold Out
March 5, 2025
FemDom Dinner & Community Conversation: "FemDom, Kink, & Community” A Facilitated Community Conversation | Sold Out
Feb 18, 2025
RISE! Book Club, Part II
A lively and informative facilitated conversation.Featuring “The Dominatrix Archetypes” by Mistress Damiana Chi, Phd., a featured speaker at the 2025 RISE! Mini-Con | Sold Out
Jan 21, 2025
RISE! Book Club, Part I
A lively and informative facilitated conversation.Featuring “The Dominatrix Archetypes” by Mistress Damiana Chi, Phd., a featured speaker at the 2025 RISE! Mini-Con | Sold Out
2024
Dec 7, 2024
“Nice & Naughty” Kinky Holiday Cabaret & Teddy Bear Drive.
This 2nd annual Cabaret was festive & fun! Female-led acts, FemDom Choir, Libations & Holiday Treats. Teddy bear donations for a local non-profit domestic violence shelter | Sold Out
Nov 6, 2024
FemDom Dinner & Community Conversation: "FemDom, Kink, & Community” A Facilitated Community Conversation | Sold Out
Sept 4, 2024
FemDom Dinner & Speaker Panel “Let’s Talk About FemDom Dynamics” | Sold Out
August 10, 2024
SDFA Mini-Con RISE! A spectacular day of speaker panels, High Protocol luncheon, and FemDom Fire the play party! | Sold Out
July 10, 2024
FemDom Dinner & Speaker Panel, “The Seductive Art of Tease & Objectification” | Sold Out
May 2024
DomCon Los Angeles, co-hosted the beloved Pet Show including promotion, agenda design, recruitment of logistics team & handlers.
April 3, 2024
FemDom Dinner & Speaker Panel, “The Nuances of Consent” | Sold Out
March 24, 2024
Domme 2 Domme Discussion Group, An informal gathering for coffee, tea, and talk time for identifying FemDom women.
March 9, 2024
Diamonds & Dommes - A High Protocol Cocktail Party. A formal multi-course meal and craft cocktails and detailed service training. Chef: Victor Sharp | Sold Out
February 7, 2024
FemDom Connect, A D/s speed meeting event | Sold Out
2023
December 5, 2023
“Nice & Naughty” Holiday Kinky Cabaret, A festive show featuring 5 female-led acts and the FemDom Choir. Our second annual Teddy Bear Drive benefiting a local non-profit domestic violence shelter | Sold Out
October 3, 2023
FemDom Dinner & Speaker Panel, “The Art of the Dominatrix”, guest Speakers Mistress Chloe and Mistress Porcelain Midnight | Sold Out
September 16, 2023
Leather & Kink Community Educational Forum, a TownHall style Meeting, hosted at The Center San Diego in response to on-going and community altering consent violations. Encouraged by and co-hosted with Sir Jo, her support and presence that day brought together long time community members and the new ”post-covid” generation for a potent day of history, education, and connection. | 80+ attendees
August 22, 2023
FemDom Dinner & Speaker Panel, “Masochism” Part 2 of the two-part Series | Sold Out
June 16, 2023
FemDom Fetish Fantasy Ball. Designed and led the cat-walk style fashion show and judging at the House of Black.
June 7, 2023
FemDom Dinner & Speaker Panel, “Sadism” Part 1 of the two-part Series “Sadism & Masochism” | Sold Out
May 2023
DomCon Los Angeles, co-hosted the Pet Show
May 3, 2023
FemDom Connect Speed Meeting Event | Sold Out
April 30, 2023
“A Midsummer’s Night Dream” High Protocol Cocktail Party. A formal Multi-course event with dedicated bartender and fire performances. Detailed service training. Chef: Victor Sharp | Sold Out
April 4, 2023
FemDom Dinner & Speaker Panel, “All Things Collaring” with special Guest speaker Sir Jo | Sold Out
March 19, 2023
High Protocol Service, A workshop and social for s-types. Guest Speakers Madam Sophia and Victor Sharp | Sold Out
February 7, 2023
FemDom Connect Speed Meeting Event | Sold Out
February 1, 2023
FemDom Dinner & Speaker Panel, “Humiliation & Degradation” Guest speaker… | Sold Out
January 7, 2023
New Year’s High Protocol Dinner A multi-course menu designed by Chef Victor Sharp, plus hand-crafted cocktails. Facilitated connection. Building conversation allowed attendees to truly connect while enjoy the delightful experience of this type of D/s exchange | Sold Out
2022
November 2022
Kink-Ed Night, Featured Demonstrator - Caning with permission of Mistress Ellen who trained me. House of Black event.
October 2022
4th Wednesday FemDom Munch, began co-hosting this local favorite monthly munch started by Goddess Sydney.
November 1, 2022
FemDom Connect Speed Meeting Event, included an educational talk about Vetting with local educator Ms. Robyn | Sold out
September 18, 2022
Launched interview-style blog series “Meet the People in my Kinky-hood”
August 2, 2022
Domme 2 Domme FemDom Dinner, announcing SDFA with a facilitated conversation experience. A night of Sisterhood and community building | Sold out.
July 2022
Launched San Diego FemDom Alliance